I have been going out with my ex for about 2 years, and I am head over heals in love with him. He just told me last month that he cheated and his ex girl friend is pregnant with his child. He decided to break things off with me and is going to get married to her. But I still love him a lot, and I just found out about 2 and half weeks ago that I am pregnant as well with his child. I am confused, heart-broken and lingering with love for him. What should I do? Any Advise?
I guess that depends on whether he still loves you, and does he deserve you love? He cheated on you with his ex, and from his ex point of view, he cheated on her with you. That man sucks! Be smart and strong. Good luck!
Many women get snagged by guys like this, my aunt has had a similar problem. I suggest you give up on this man, his behaviour shows he is not suited with the loyalty a father and spouse requires to fulfill the role effectively.
If you do wish to keep the child (abortion and adoption are options) then you can, and possibly you will find a partner to help you raise him/her. Depending on your relations with your family they can help as well. There are certain organizations that help with this. If it is a son then 'big brother' is a good program for providing a male influence. Unfortunately if it is a daughter, she would have to find that elsewhere as big brother/big sister only do same sex rolemodelling options. I believe the government gives tax breaks and stipends to single mothers as well.
I simple answer. Just forget about him and find a better man. It is pointless to keeping hoping that he will change for the better. Even politicians like John Edwards can't change, especially since he may be the father of Rielle Hunter's baby. Point is, a lot of women miss out the good guys and go for the wrong ones because of the excitement, but that is always short-lived.
